I love Atlanta. I really do. The city is beautiful… The weather is awesome. You can drive two hours and be in the country, in the mountains, or at the ocean.
But there is one thing I have grown to really detest about Atlanta… Up until a few months ago, it was one of those things that was bad, but sort of unrelated to my life.
I broke up with my last boyfriend for many reasons… The biggest reason was that it just didn’t work. We were moving at different speeds in totally opposite directions. I hung onto that relationship for a long time. I really believed we could make it work. What sealed the deal on the breakup for me was two fold. He was living a triple life… Had another girlfriend and he was on the down low.
*gasp* Seriously. Me! Little ol’ me was duped by a “straight” guy who had sex with men.
Suffice it to say, I am okay. I got tested and everything came up clean. I’m going back at the first of the year to get checked again, just to be sure.
Anyway, back to Atlanta… Atlanta is like the Southern San Fransisco. It’s a playground for young, beautiful gay men. Hang out down by Piedmont Park on the weekends, at 10th and Piedmont and you’ll see… I love that about Atlanta. I love that, right here, in the middle of the bible belt, the gay community sends out a big “Fuck You!” to the religious right. I love it.
I don’t love how many men are on the downlow. I did a Craigslist search today for M4M with the search stipulations “DL” with images. I was shocked. Sickened. Just really, really saddened.
What makes me angry about this whole situation is that these men are lying about it. Really. That’s the bulk of it.
What makes me frustrated and sad for these men is that, for whatever reason, they can’t admit they’re just gay. Or at least bi.
I won’t list the pictures on these profiles, but suffice it to say these all are pretty much NSFW.
Married guy looking for adventure – 47
I am not attracted to men but I do enjoy a nice cock. If you like what you see and share my interests, are under 45 with little body hair and not over weight, with a place to get together lets talk.
What does that even mean? If he really just liked cock, he’d be accepting of a big, fat, hairy dude, right? “I’m not attracted to men…” Famous last words…
Looking 4 NOW – 48 (Chamblee/Tucker Rd at 85)
Looking to stop by your place and play. Oral passionate bottom here. Married safe and discreet looking for safe play. Love mansex and love to please. Sevenseven zero threeone zero fivethree twotwo.
Love mansex? OMG. How does one ensure that they’re “safe”…? People place too much security in condoms, man… What are they, like… 98% effective!? If you stick your dick in enough holes, you’re bound to get something. It’s just the law of averages.
Married Ex Frat looking for Same – 28 (Bkhead)
Married 28 ex frat looking for masculine, young, cool guy to mess with. 5’9 160lbs brwn brwn 32w white masc athletic. White, professional, masculine only. Hit me back with a face pic.
I knew it! This! This is why I hate frat boys!
black man on the down low – 33 (stn mtn,panola rd,covington hwy)
hey hit me up four o four nine five seven 8 three seven three… i am on the dl verse black male i cant host so if you know a spot or if you have a spot hit me up…no games or long drawn out emails and texting just hit me up an its on.. i like the early morning like 630am or after 5pm …i drive so let me know whats up …i like to do every thing just tell me…if you see me in the street you would not know i am a freak… so you should look str8….four o four nine five seven eight 3 seven three… i am clean u should be also!
OMG. Is it really the “downlow” if you put your face picture up? Sad, sad, sad.
DL / STR8 BLK NIGG TRYIN TO CHILL ON THE LOW – 23 (Atlanta)
wass good 23yo black STR8 / DL nigg tryin to chill wit a koo nigg. not into kats who act like females (i got a girl for that) jus a regular nigg. 5’11″ 190 thick football player build, fresh fade, pakin on both ends. jus get at me tho ima koo dude. make sho u send a picture in yo first email. ONE
What does “pakin on both ends” mean? Hrm… Like… He’s versatile? Top and a bottom?
Gag. Dudes. C’mon. Don’t be fake. If you wanna go there, just do it. Don’t pretend to like women. It’s just not fair man.
