Andy list himself as “not yet a citizen, but hoping for the right woman.” That alone left me wide-eyed, but there also wasn’t any attraction on my part. Here’s me trying to let him down sweetly. Repeatedly.
IM Conversation with Andy (name changed):
(After an initial introduction)
Andy:let me ask you this
:shoot
:do you mind if you give me chance to get to know you more and see where it takes please check out my profile and be honest i’m sure if you do give me chance you wont regret
:you’re very sweet andy…but i don’t think so.
:well you you never know plus dont judge a book its cover just give a shot
:i appreciate the offer
:but no thanks
:ok no problem i understand i try atleast if you change your mind i’m always open so come halla at me
:sure
:thanks
:let me add if you need true love some one who can treat you right thats me
:ok. thank you andy.
:take care Jami and nice talking to you
The new dating site has an instant chat feature and I can’t figure out how to toggle it off as a default. So far, I have to login and go find the IM feature and disable it… QUICK!
Andy caught me on the run to make that happen.
I leave you with a quote from Dale Carnegie:
Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.
(raising glass)
Here’s to you, Andy!









