Comments on: Date Report http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/ The Bottom Of The Online Dating Barrel Sat, 07 May 2011 02:45:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Julesagain http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/comment-page-1/#comment-1016 Julesagain Wed, 06 May 2009 14:47:00 +0000 http://datewrecks.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/date-report-6/#comment-1016 I think I may be working from a different definition of bad boy. You can have a seriously strong, stable, wonderful man who is covered in tattoos and has long hair and piercings, and a swaggering asshole who appears to be Mr. Upright Citizen. A real man who is strong and self confident is one of the sexiest things on earth, and doesn't come with a particular exterior coloring. He also doesn't need to belittle or disrespect the women in his life to be strong, and I guess that's where I went off the tracks here. We all have built-in preferences regarding what we're physically attracted to, but some of the surprising things in life come when we're willing to step outside that a little. I just hate to see people equate nice with boring, or assume that a slightly vanilla exterior is the sum total of someone's personality. <br /><br />But if we're just talking looks here, we like what we like, there's no getting around that. I think I may be working from a different definition of bad boy. You can have a seriously strong, stable, wonderful man who is covered in tattoos and has long hair and piercings, and a swaggering asshole who appears to be Mr. Upright Citizen. A real man who is strong and self confident is one of the sexiest things on earth, and doesn’t come with a particular exterior coloring. He also doesn’t need to belittle or disrespect the women in his life to be strong, and I guess that’s where I went off the tracks here. We all have built-in preferences regarding what we’re physically attracted to, but some of the surprising things in life come when we’re willing to step outside that a little. I just hate to see people equate nice with boring, or assume that a slightly vanilla exterior is the sum total of someone’s personality.

But if we’re just talking looks here, we like what we like, there’s no getting around that.

]]> By: Sarah http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/comment-page-1/#comment-1017 Sarah Wed, 06 May 2009 04:07:00 +0000 http://datewrecks.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/date-report-6/#comment-1017 Please hook me up with his brother. kthxbai Please hook me up with his brother. kthxbai

]]> By: Sarah http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/comment-page-1/#comment-1018 Sarah Wed, 06 May 2009 04:07:00 +0000 http://datewrecks.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/date-report-6/#comment-1018 Please hook me up with his brother. kthxbai Please hook me up with his brother. kthxbai

]]> By: Stumblebunny http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/comment-page-1/#comment-1026 Stumblebunny Mon, 04 May 2009 19:50:00 +0000 http://datewrecks.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/date-report-6/#comment-1026 I finally gave the "nice guy" a chance three years ago, and we were married in October. I have never been happier than when I am laying on the couch with him watching It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, drinking coke and eating sunflower seeds. We laugh, talk, kiss, and it is more wonderful than I could have ever expected. I am so glad he waited me out! (Took me 3 months to get past the friend stage) I finally gave the “nice guy” a chance three years ago, and we were married in October. I have never been happier than when I am laying on the couch with him watching It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, drinking coke and eating sunflower seeds. We laugh, talk, kiss, and it is more wonderful than I could have ever expected. I am so glad he waited me out! (Took me 3 months to get past the friend stage)

]]> By: MJ http://datewrecks.com/2009/05/date-report-6/comment-page-1/#comment-1025 MJ Sat, 02 May 2009 03:11:00 +0000 http://datewrecks.wordpress.com/2009/05/01/date-report-6/#comment-1025 Awesome on a good date!<br /><br /><br />Having been considered a "Bad Gal" for my clothing choices or my musical tastes, while actually being a stand-up person, I sometimes get bothered by the whole "Keep away from Bad Boys" thing.<br /><br />I have dated "Bad Boys" who were really sweet and some who were total losers. Likewise, with "nice guys".<br /><br />I guess I'm just saying Hooray for being open minded on this guy. Awesome on a good date!

Having been considered a “Bad Gal” for my clothing choices or my musical tastes, while actually being a stand-up person, I sometimes get bothered by the whole “Keep away from Bad Boys” thing.

I have dated “Bad Boys” who were really sweet and some who were total losers. Likewise, with “nice guys”.

I guess I’m just saying Hooray for being open minded on this guy.

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